I’M BEING BULLIED WHAT DO I DO

So you are being bullied and you want to know what to do . . .

Don’t waste your time caring

Don’t go to school until the bullies are removed from the school

Don’t allow the bully to know they up-set you

 

See this picture . . .Why is she crying? I would have ripped her arm off and beat her

Physical bullying at school, as depicted in the film Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

with it.

Look how everyone is in shock! Why?Because she is crying and doing nothing back!  They are waiting.

Bullies zero in on victims who are shy and or keep to themselves knowing they are easy prey.  Bullies LOVE to pick on self-conscious people, this is easy fun for them.

WHY GRANT A BULLY THE SATISFACTION  It does them more harm if you have the

English: Bullying on IRFE in March 5, 2007, the first class day. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

courage to let their shit go in one ear and out the other. BY LAW . . .If they hit, you hit, If they punch you punch. As long as you do what they did and nothing more it is fine by the law. But DO NOT BALL UP AND CRY! Do not allow a bully to pick on you. Pick back. So what, you got a black eye out of it. The bully will think twice before he/she picks on you again. Plus sooner or later other kids and or people will stand up for you that you stood up for yourself.

THINK BEFORE YOU DO THINGS

If you chose to place yourself in the public eye without thinking about the outcome. Don’t hide and cry when it all comes back at you?  What is that about? If you chose to put yourself out there then YOU HAVE TO TAKE WHAT COMES WITH IT.  EVERYTHING HAS A REACTION NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO.  EVERYTHING!

DON’T BE AFRAID TO CALL THE POLICE   DON’T BE AFRAID TO CALL THE POLICE

DON’T BE AFRAID TO CALL THE POLICE.

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DON’T KILL YOURSELF FOR BULLIES   DON’T KILL YOURSELF FOR A BULLY

DON’T KILL YOURSELF FOR A BULLY

TAKE A DAMN HISSY FIT IF THAT IS WHAT IT TAKES TO GET YOUR PARENTS TO UNDERSTAND    FREAK OUT AT THE PRINCIPAL     FREAK OUT AT THE TEACHER

FREAK OUT AT THE BULLY  FOR  FRIG SAKES

HOW MANY CHILDREN HAVE TO DIE FOR BULLIES

Bullies can not be stopped they must be dealt with.  You have to stop letting it bother you.

English: the picture consist of articles on bullying, I obtained it from public domain. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Here is the thing . . .You can hang as many signs as you want that read, NO BULLYING, and it will not stop

any bully at all. A bully is not afraid of a little sign. BUT A BULLY IS AFRAID

BUT OF WHAT

Their parents? You would be surprised as to how many parents do not know their kids are bullies . . .

Frig that crap! . . .You will be more surprised as to how many parents won’t care their kids are bullies,  telling  you to get over it.  But don’t kid yourself,  most of these kids are afraid of their parents.

Killing yourself is not the answer as even with you dead the bully does not care and they only find anyone else to pick on. YOU HAVE TO FIGHT BACK YOU HAVE TO LIVE.

Cry at home if you need to,  behind,  closed doors. Never allow a bully the satisfaction of them knowing they bother you in any way  . . .Because once they start they will not stop! YOU and ONLY you can stop it! By ignoring, by joining in with them,

Some guys doing intimidation in Instituto Regional Federico Errázuriz, Santa Cruz, Chile (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

by refusing to be around them . . .Odd how parents won’t allow you out after dark,  but they send you in broad day light,  into the grasps of bullies. I do not know what the difference is.

Here in THEDOGHOUSE everything is fair game, as soon as you open your yap the wrong way,  nothing goes by without saying. Tit for tat, goose for gander, what is good for you is good for me, if you do so can i. Don’t go to school, go to the police station. Phone your Mayor. Do what ever it takes as long as YOU DO NOT HARM YOURSELF for the likes of a bastard bully, what the hey man . . .

TWENTY-TWELVE JULY 21/1:30

Twenty-twelve July 21/1:30, the small child picked up a hand-full of un frozen freezes. You say . . .

Put it back or you are going to bed . . .The child is busy glaring at this found treasure.  But then you grab the fragile arm and yell.

I said it three-times and that is it . . .Come on you are going to bed. I don’t care if you are only two, i said it three times and you have to learn. Of course the kid is protesting.

Then you yell, you don’t listen to me, why don’t you listen to me . . .

You forget that you already answered that question yourself . . .

You yell at that two-year old child,  that they, [DON’T] listen,  to you, there for,  in their learning young brain,  you continue to tell them,  not, to listen,  to you.

So,  your even more,  wrong way,  to approach this matter,  by now yelling at your child,  why don’t you listen to me,  is not something you should be asking a child of two. It should be a question you ask of,  yourself.

Don’t worry little ones grama is here.

Try leaving out YOU DON’T, and say,  [listen to me], or [do what you are told] . . .But this must be used as a habit, like finger and nail.

Maybe next time walk over to your baby and kindly take the freezes and ask if they would like one that is ready. How simple for both of you.

Why are  you even YELLING at a two-year-old?

TEENAGERS AND PARENTS

Teenagers and parents why do they not get along.    Not all teenagers and parents fight, thousand of teenagers and parents get along. Why? Because they listen to each other and have RESPECT for one another . . .

RESPECT?   YES, respect. Terrible thing,  but we have laws and rules to follow, each and every one of us. When a parent says jump we say how high. We may not like it but that is life. One day you may be a parent and what will you expect from your child? You will expect them to do as they are told by you, with, RESPECT.

MY PARENTS BEAT ME.   BUT.

HOW DO YOU THINK THEY WERE RAISED.  They were yelled at and beat too.  But it is against the Law now in most country’s, which i am sure it does not help you. Who cares about other  country’s or other kids, we care about ourselves and how life is for us right now. Our parents hit us for several reasons . . .They don’t know what else to do when you won’t do as you are told by them. . .But Home is the safest place to be whether you like it or not, plus you have a roof over your head and food and a place to wash and sleep and all sorts of things like getting old enough to have a job and save money to be able to leave out on your own with no worries.  But if you choose to pit against your parent/s . . .Well then, things are going to get nasty and you and they will not like this.

You can’t always get what you want it is not healthy . . .No means no, you are taught this at a very young age. It is the same at  school with your friends or teachers, when they say no it means no. When YOU, say NO,  to anyone,  what does this mean? Do wish them to keep asking or bothering you for it?   Of course not, You said no, which means the END of it.  Please.

You can’t think in your head things like, well her/his parents let them, why won’t mine. For one thing . . .that is not your parent nor is it you.

You are not supposed to fight and argue and rebel. THIS IS VERY WRONG as this is against your parent. Besides when you are 21, YES I said twenty-one. By this age you should be able to think and make good choices for yourself and others if need be. But right now you are a teenager and supposed to be doing your best to learn how to get through life by obeying your parents. Your parents were once, teenagers too.

You think life is hard being a teenager? Wait until you  are an adult and see just how hard that is . . .Now add children who will not listen to you. tell me how hard it is now compared to being a teenager. BIG DIFFERENCE now!  Will you allow your child to run the streets?

Sometimes parents and teenagers clash and sometimes they don’t . . .WHY? . . .because things are running smoothly and you are obeying, the more you do,  what you are asked or told,  by your parents,  the more kinder everyone is. It is a tough world out there and parents do not have time for their OWN children,  to rebel against them.

What do i know you may wonder? Well i was a teenager once too and now i am a single parent,  of three. Sure we had our moments, who doesn’t?  But i allowed my children to properly voice their opinions, without the swearing and yelling and calling names and all the other disrespectful mutters. We spoke until we understood each other. And YES! . . .Plenty of times they did not like the rules but they went along as they are the children and i the parent. As a parent,  i did not hit or beat my children, i myself was a beaten child until the age of 15. I talked until the cows came home if you know what i mean. They hated it at times, but i was able to get through to them that sometimes RULES are best to be followed and not shoved aside, that is when things get out of hand and someone gets hurt. This is usually the teenager. Life is not a big party and you know this . . .Just because he/she does, does not mean you can. For all you know, that teenagers parent is saying . . .

Sure go,  do what you want, just leave me alone.  WHAT?  How is this a good thing! How much care is in those words. NONE!   Most parents care,  about what happens with their teenager and the parent is plenty old enough to know the dangers that can happen and that is why we have statistics.  PARENTS KNOW THE STATISTICS on dead or raped or all bad things that can and do fall down on their children . . .And no parent wants for their child or teenager to die at the hands of evil just because the teenager or child gave them a hard time about following a rule.  The PARENT will choose to stand their ground and fight and argue with the rebelling kid, and save for that life.

TEENAGERS AND PARENTS

Wait until you have your own.  Because life is like that.

 

BULLIES AT TWO YEARS OLD

Quite the hand full there.

A TWO YEAR OLD BULLY

Not even afraid of his own parents. Easy or hard to imagine. Well imagine that,  cause it is true. There happens to be one here right now . . .Out side of it being funny, it is not. THAT CHILD IS GROWING UP.

Bullies at two years old. He YELLS commands because he is up-set or tired or hungry or not getting what he wants.

NUMBER ONE THING

This two-year old child has learned and is still taking lessons on how to get what you want.  This learning thrives from his surrounds . . .LIKE HIS PARENTS. The only learning he has really, Plus the television set. We can’t for get the TV., can we . . .Especially,  when it is shopping time. Getting in and out of the stores without buying a toy or candy is a hard thing to do. . . .THESE KIND OF CHILDREN-want everything they see on the tv., all the other children have, Candy and toys that are exploited through Tv. ad commercials.

NUMBER ONE THING

Don’t subject,  your child,  to these kind of TELEVISION showings. WHY? . . .Why should your very own child,  be the only child,  without that toy, or drink or candy,  when all the kids on this TV. have those things.    AND WHY . . .Why as an adult,  do you expect a two-year old to understand,  that it is just an advert to rattle your mind, forcing you  listen to the scream and cry, of your child until you break.   TV-land is fully aware, you will end up buying their product to shut the two-year old up or slap the child out,  trying to make him stop wanting what he sees as a whole lot of fun and everyone has.

So the child ends up with the short end of the stick in life as he is being taught in order to not have what you want you must yell, slap, or tossed in bed or worse.  In the end this child is indeed a full-grown bully. This child is growing up learning to get what you want you slap and yell and push-down and so many wrong things,  that we see,  in the lives of other people and their up-bringing.

BULLIES AT TWO YEARS OLD

These babies are so easy to fix. Days of tenderness are all it takes. What is tenderness?

TENDERNESS

• NOTHING LOUD
• NOTHING HEAVY
• NO PUNISHMENTS
• FULL ATTENTION
• LISTENING
• UNDERSTANDING
• Compassion

Why have a child if you do not want to guide and teach it to be as smart as you? SMARTER SHOULD YOU CHOOSE TO DO.  CHILDREN DO AS YOU.

Life is like that . . .We are animals just like all other animals only we talk. Because we talk we are of a different animalNeanderthals. UP RIGHTandMouthy. Go figure . . .Let the bears talk and not us, they will still be kinder to their young. Just About All animals are better with their babies than humans are.

This bully you are raising will be like all the other bullies before them, slapping you out one day, only thing is we get older faster than they, they only get stronger.  The ones that live that is. Bullies at two years grow up to hit and yell at you or go on their own never to see you again. And then it turns out you are old and all alone and scared, like they once were when they were two.

 

 

 

THE REAL NORMALITY of life

Life is very complicated,  yet  each day we find our way into the new day they tell us,  is called tomorrow.  They also tell us tomorrow

It was not snowing yesterday

is a different day where things will be different [if we let them ], it is up to each and every one of us to make it different or better for that matter.  

Of course this process is the normality of it all, everyday is a new day where you have the opportunity to change, to do different, to start over, to do what you really want, to just be you.

It is very normal to do what you want to do.  [ I AM NOT TALKING VIOLENT SHIT ], in any way!  {this is not normal} This is an illness that the government should look into a little bit. 

Why do i have to eat all the left overs FINE!

It is the NORMALITY of everyday life to take care of the ill and not let it run loose in the streets, after all.   Has History not taught to banish all illness?   But  [should you feel like skipping rope ], who to tell you,   you can’t? . . .

• A BULLY?  
• A BOSS? 
• WHO? 
• Who do YOU tell what to do? 
  

  It's my Birthday and i will if i want to

• And why?
• who are you?

1. See where i’m going on this NORMALITY in life? 
2.  LIFE IS WHAT WE ALLOW IT TO BE
3. LIFE IS HOW WE MAKE IT
4. LIFE IS VERY SHORT

I do not do anything in Normality any more. 

I seem to have lost it or allowed someone to take it away from me,  of course this would have been long ago.  Cause here i am and i did not get here over night.

No…It took years and some of them stand-out, in my mind,  where i can see just that point,  that moment in time, something i loved doing,  banished.  All because someone changed me, and i let go.

 And now the Normality of it all is,  i do not know how to be, or function outside my door, except for to be on the defence and always

Are you going to be a swimmer

on guard and ready to take down or be put down and when i think about it / which i do . . .Who is going to tell me i am not being NORMAL when it is all very normal to me. That is how i was raised.

Odd,  all my life,  people would tell me i was not normal  . . .But they thought i was funny.  Which just brought me to the conclusion that people like to laugh at the un-normal things in life, [it brings pleasure ], i realized i was pleasure to people. PEOPLE do not live in pleasure on a daily basis, they like it once in a while is all.  WHY?

THE REAL NORMALITY OF IT ALL IS

It is not normal to thrive in a state of pure pleasure for lengthy periods of time. Do they call that state of mind something like idiocy, something there like that. Think about it really . . .Your mind up on a high peak never coming down. {anytime there, lu-lu} Sounds shaky to me.

It would be so grand to be able just to do what we like to do, without other people telling us it is wrong or not their way . . .The real normality of it all is those people telling us how to live feel like they are very normal by thinking it is up to them to help us through each and everyday, but doing it, their way.   But then look what happens.

While we live out our lives, living,  like them,  we slowly tuck our

I'm going to start my own business you will see

own selves,  way,  back somewhere,  where we think it is safe and i will remember you another day, [that day never comes ].

We tossed  that normal thing we did away.  Which was something  of ourselves,  that was a normal thing we liked doing, just to please someone, we gave up a piece of ourselves. But the bad thing, the sad thing of it all is . . .One day we wake up a lone.         [ Oh No ] . . .

• THE REAL NORMALITY OF IT ALL IS YOU WERE ALWAYS JUST ONE PERSON LIVING TWO LIVES 
• NOW WHO ARE YOU. 
• Are you YOU?  
• Are you THEM?   Normally you woke up with them, now it’s just you.

YOU have to find yourself  you have no choice.  But me? . . .

1. The real normality here is you either like me or you don’t and i can’t care. {it is normal not to care i forgot how} though i am rather sorry if i offend, i do not mean to or do it with temp.
2. I just do not know NORMAL, nor the meaning. [I know right from wrong ], and that is good enough for me. 
3. Because even i  know,  it is 100% NORMAL to teach from the beginning of life, what is RIGHT & WRONG, but not by beating it into us. 
4. I can learn like everyone else without being hit, i think. 
5. Wait a minute . . .Let me re-phrase that will you.  
6. As i  am,  rather dumb,  and i do get myself into things by accident out of  innocent wonderings.
7. And it does take me time to learn things, some times a lot of time.
8. So lets just say . . .People should find other teaching tactics rather [ a one minded track ] then they wouldn’t need hitting. 
   

   How many ways can i show you

     Better?  Yes. 

9. Scared myself for a minute. Too funny if i do say so myself.

But life is like that Normally, isn’t it?  Funny that is,  {nevermind}.

Are there any books out there on THE REAL NORMALITY?

• Because normally i would wake and kiss my spouse on the cheek and get out of bed.
• Wash and dress making sure to put the kettle on the stove.
• Start cooking eggs and toast putting cereal and milk on the table along with jam and peanut butter and cheese-whiz.
• Tidy up a bit washing the morning dust off things and wait for all to wake up then the day begins.
• Kisses good-bye as everyone leaves off to work or school.
• Then more cleaning of the house and washing of the cloths and sewing if need doing, and readying for all to come back for lunch.
• More kisses hugs good-bye and the afternoon starts more dishes and tidying as they all leave, make a blanket or do some baking planning a hearty supper. making the beds are in there somewhere.

When all that is gone,  what do you do – where do you go from there,  all you know is to be a wife, mom, man or a husband and fashioned into something, someone else.  now, no one telling you what to do.    Even the normal daily years have come to a pass, where age has control and nothing is normal anymore.

The real normality of it all is . . .We left ourselves back there at the start of it all when we should have been keeping it with us. 

Who was i

Life is what we make it and we all have our own choices whether we act upon them or not is a choice we make as well.

THE END

AND THEN  we have people like me where our thought patterns are normal if they move all over the place and they get voiced as they come.   Because in typing all this for you i came to realize that my son does things for me out of compassion in a way that he understands that i do not understand so he gives into or unto me.  HOW AWESOME IS A SON LIKE THAT.   Lucky me.

THE REAL NORMALITY IS   i seldom tell my son thank-you for being mine. God could have given you to someone else.

LIKE A:

1. rich man
2. poor man
3. baker-man  
4. thief
5. doctor
6. lawyer
7. indian chief
8. tinker
9. tailor
10. cowboy
11. sailor
12. But he didn’t,  he gave you to me, probably cause he knows that i am  dumb. Thanks-kid for being mine.
    

    I have to do this again?

13. And i know the real normality of it all, is,  i raised my son. {And just for some of you, he uses the capital I all the time.} Not me.

 

Why Children Get The Short End Of The Stick SECRETS.

I’ll tell you why . . .Indeed the child can not fight back against a non child or a gown-up.  Especially when this older group of people gang up all agreeing with the fact of things.  The child has no choise but to take what is learned by all around them, and hope not to get into trouble, with what is called misguided information.  I can attest to some pretty horrible acts placed upon children almost on a daily routine, I  can only pray,  the child grows up being able to fit in society, I seldom wonder about those children and what became of them. The short of the stick had the better of them for the most crucial part of their new lives.

We all know, or I should say every human being should be raised with the same values in life’s path, but plenty of children are; beat, slap, hit, or burn or some other form of punishment, while others are raised up proper.  We all know we blame the child telling them they should have done better or something there like that, and  it is pretty easy to see and understand why some children act the way they do.  The short end of the stick.

How many people do you know hurt and yell at their children on a daily basis and how are those child, how do they act.  You don’t! Because it is always behind closed doors.  These are the secrets of  [the short end of the stick kids.]  I tell you what . . .These kids are going to retaliate,  but not against me I’m nice . . .Oh wait a minute, no body knows I’m nice.

Yet I was raised like one of those children, [ short end of th stick kids too.]  So I can understand why they do the things they do.  We can even share secrets.

Good night to all and remember . . . We are all raised by adults  or someone much older.

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