Oh it is that easy is it . . .Let me tell you what you got to do . . .You have to stop telling me what i gotta do and actually tell me how it is done with blow by-play by instructions, using only your hands and mouth. THEN, you would be telling me what i so-called, gotta do.
HEAR IS WHAT YOU GOTTA DO
PAY SPECIAL ATTENTION WHEN ANYONE IS TALKING TO YOU
THIS WAY AT LEAST YOU heard WHAT THEY SAID. This way whether you like it or not . . .You now have the opportunity to think about what you did hear or what you did not HEAR, where forth you can SIMPLY say i didn’t understand that.
Then if indeed you did HEAR that. You have full right to reply.
IF YOU ARE STANDING THERE trying to figure things while they are talking to you, then hear is what you gotta do.
- Politely interrupt saying can you start from the beginning. [NOTHING MORE ]
- STOP THINKING WHEN ANYONE IS TALKING TO YOU. [Hear every word ]
- Make sure you fully understand what is being said to you. [I didn’t quite understand that ]
Hear is what you gotta do. Find time for each other.